
Being a new Mom is one of the most rewarding experiences in the world. There is no joy like looking into the face of my sweet little one each and everyday. I am 13 weeks in at this point and I have already picked up on a few things that have helped with my transition into motherhood. Like most others I have received more advice than you can ever imagine on what to expect as a new Mom. While some of the advice was spot on, some had to be taken with a grain of salt. I have learned that each pregnancy, birth, and baby are completely different. There are things that may have worked for others that didn’t seem to work for me and there are things that work perfectly for me that doesn’t work well for others (thats life). I’ve been thinking about what I would want to tell my friends that may ask for my advice and I put together a list of the top six things that I think is important for new mothers to know.
1.)Don’t assume the worst. On the first few nights that we were home with our daughter I found myself analyzing each and every sound and movement that she made. My first thoughts were what does that mean, is something wrong, is she choking, can I hear her breathing, is she uncomfortable just to name a few. I literally drove myself insane and did not take advantage of my small allotment of sleep. If I could go back I would tell myself to take a deep breath. Instead of assuming bad things manifest positive things and you will feel a relief like no other. As a Mom and especially a new Mom you are going to be a worry wart but try not to entertain negative thoughts and instead stay attentive and surround you and your baby with nothing but love and positive vibes.
2.)Trust your instincts. You know what is best for you and your baby. Listen to your heart and always go with your gut feeling because 99% of time it is guiding you in the right direction. I spent so much time on google searching each and everything that I noticed. This only made matters worst as you know google will show you the worst of the worst. I would recommend that instead of looking to Dr. Google look at your baby try to feel their need. I have a mental checklist that I like to use with my little one. The first thing I check is if she needs to be changed, then I think about the last time she ate, next I try to burp her or rub her tummy to relieve any gas. Sometimes my baby only wants my love and attention so I shower her with lots of kisses and cuddles because at the end of the day who doesn’t want that! 🙂
3.) Breast milk is the cure to EVERYTHING. Like seriously if your baby has a mild case of baby acne, red spots or if the little one scratches themselves on the face just sprinkle a little breast milk on it and watch the miracle happen lol.
4.) Have no expectations. One of the best things about being a new Mommy is getting to know your little one and yourself in your new role. Appreciate the adventure and don’t expect your experience to be like anyone else’s.
5.) Enjoy the journey. Being a Mom is awesome therefore you are awesome so enjoy every minute of it!!!
6.) Ask for help when needed and accept help when it’s offered. You don’t have to be a super hero all of the time. Don’t be afraid to ask for help if you need it. We had so much help with our little one and it has made a world of difference for me especially.
I hope these tips are as helpful to you as they have been for me.
The breast milk thing it’s soooo true! My kid is 4 and I miss nursing, only when she has a booboo….
I was so amazed when I learned about it. Breast milk is literally the best thing since sliced bread! Lol
The first few months are definitely hard. My little one just turned 2 months yesterday, so I’m in the midst of it all right now. These are great tips!
Stay positive Mama the road gets easier. I’m still learning myself but I can see improvements each week.
Yess!!! It’s hard for a new mom no not assume the worst when their baby sneezes weird. Lol. It was impossible for me. But I agree with the trust your instincts. No one knows a baby better than their momma!!! Great read!!
I’m still working on that but I can say that I’m not on google as much anymore lol
Sigh… I wish I read these tips when I became a first time mom. Thanks for these thoughts! I know they will be helpful! Especially the last one. Asking or openly receiving help is sometimes hard. But the saying “It takes a village…” really is true! Keep on writing mama!! you’re doing awesome!
Thank you for taking the time to read my posts. I had hoped these tips could offer a little relief. I’m still a very new Mama but these tips have helped me quite a bit.
Fantastic tips I wish I had when my daughters were born co
Thank you so much for taking time to read my posts!!!
These are great tips! Trusting your Mama instincts is definitely key. It’s amazing how quickly those come in 🙂
Thank you. My Mama instincts or Spidey Senses as I like to call them have kicked in so fast. My daughter and I are so connected. I love it!
Spot on! My first 6 weeks after childbirth was my hardest (both times). I still think back to those stressful times and wish I would have slowed down to just enjoy them (as best as I could lol) They’re only so little for a short time. They grow so fast. Soak it all in. It will be over before you know it!
You are so right. My munchkin is growing so fast I just can’t believe it. It’s much easier said than done but I’m trying to stop and smell the roses.
These are all perfect!! And so so true!! Thanks for sharing. I needed to hear this way back with my first!!
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Awesome! Very informative and well written. Keep up the good work! 😘😘❤️❤️
Thanks for the support Ma!!!! 😘❤️
Oh mama, I’ve been there. My kids are 1 1/2 and 3 now and it gets easier. The biggest lesson I learned was asking for help. I felt like I would be failing at this whole parenting thing if I asked for help. But especially with my first, half the time I didn’t know what day it was or if it was AM or PM.
You’re so right and it gets easier and easier everyday. I’m am beyond thankful for my support system. They help me out so much!
Such great tips! Breastmilk totally cures all! That was always my go to (and still does cure all). I was always someone that didnt like accepting help but this was the one time I did and I am so happy I gave in. Having friends deliver freezer meals and family come over to help me clean the house was a huge help.
You’re so right! The first two weeks it was all hands on deck with my parents and my in laws. I’m so thankful for that support. It made the world of difference.
Sweet and straight to the point! Love it!
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Love this post!!
Breastmilk really does cure almost EVERYTHING. It’s pretty amazing!
Thank you for reading my post!!! Breastmilk is all of that 🙂
YESSSS!!!! All of these tips are spot. on. I made some of the same mistakes with my daughter but the one thing that literally saved me from driving myself insane was asking for help!
Thank you for sharing and congratulations on your sweet girl! <3
Thank you so much! Asking for help is so much easier said than done but there is so much truth to the saying that it takes a village to raise a child. Having help has definitely kept me sane!
All of your points are spot on, but I can especially relate to number 6. Even after having three kids, I still struggle with asking for and accepting help. Great list, momma!
It’s so hard to do sometimes. I still have my moments lol. Thanks for reading my post 🙂
The first few weeks were hard for me as well, I had a c-section and was recovering from my difficult pregnancy. I think this post is great for new moms to read! Thanks for sharing.
I’m so happy you got through it. I really hope these tips can help someone out there.
I see SO many new momma’s worried about trusting their instincts! It is so true that momma knows best! Great post girl!
Thanks so much. I always say when in doubt trust your gut feeling.
Love it! Great advice. Even though the twins make 5, I still feel like a new mommy. Your blog is nice, simple and straight to the point..any mom’s will benefit from this. I’ve been thinking about starting a blog about being a mom of twins/5 boys…still praying on it.
You absolutely should start a blog. I’m sure you have great advice and experience to share. Thanks for reading my posts. I appreciate the support. Kiss the babies for me!